Bullying…

well done sabbi, bullies are at the end of the day insecure people sad to think that there are still so many people being bullied both children and kids and are afraid to speak about it so fair play…..

i have to say that i’m disgusted and feel for you i hope that he feels terrible for what he did and the girls too what an awful experience for you…i hope many people stand up read this and help the fight against bullies….and the bullies themselves read it and feel very ashamed of themselves….

as usual you are an inspiration to all women and a strong woman at that…great guts and courage if only we could all be like you…

Sabbi I think your brilliant to post this up, Im sure there are people out there young and old that can relate to you story. I remember talking in your company about how I felt bullying now days was worse what with mobile phones and facebook etc and years ago you could go home and close your door until the next day….. your nearly had a fit so I kinda know you were affected in someway.

I was bullied for years by 3 girls (we moved onto their street) they tied me to a tree and let me, I was on my bike and one threw a tennis racket into my front wheel sending me flying onto the tarmac on my face (yeah thats what happened) I told my parents, teachers you name it but it still carried on. My dad sat me down and told me to stand up for myself, but how could I there were 3 of them, he told me to take the leader out……. so I did and my anger of 3 years of getting the crap kicked out of me came out, I got the bitch on her own and when I stood up to her she laughed… I was 12 or 13 at the time and the garda were called as once I started to hit her I couldnt stop, I remember being on top of her and banging her head off the ground (it was grass) Now she gave me as good as she got, but I didnt feel the pain I just felt "you bitch you wont do this to me again and get away with it" I was shout do you think thats funny now?
I remember the next day in school about 10 girls came up to me and asked if we could be friends as she was doing the same to them

Would you believe I seen 2 of them only 2 weeks ago, they were bridesmaids for an old neighbour….. I said hello and so did they, one came over a few minutes later to admire my ds2, she told me that she couldnt have kids and had tried ivf and failed, she has the same condition as myself and she told me it always gave her hope when she heard I was pregnant ( sorry in tears typing this) I HATED these girls for years for what they put me through just because my parents were from money and I was to them " a spoilt bitch". but would you believe I felt SORRY for her….She never said sorry to me but she didnt have to just looking into her eyes and seeing how she looked so longingly at my ds2 and seeing her pain, all she did to me I never had even half the pain her eyes had.
So Sabbi if you ever meet your tormentor you might be surprised at how you feel. I know what happened to you was terrible but its what makes you the person you are today
Well done

Read your article.
Will reply properly when I have a chance.
You’re a brave and lovely woman.
Take care.
Love,
XXX Fabienne

Joey I remember reading you were bullied in your secondary school, not nice at all. I think most bullies have problems of their own and being the bully is there way of trying to hid whats happening in there life…. some are just evil bastards

What happened me didnt affect me as much as Sabbi, it just made me stand up for myself even more

With a bit of luck some bully somewhere will read this and maybe just maybe think again about their actions on others

Just got in, and just read your post. Well done my friend, well done! 😉

Talking is healing in itself, and by sharing, you give others hope, and inspiration.

I’m so proud that I can call you my friend….
thank you… 😉

omg!

well done sabbi! you are an inspiration to us all. you are so brave.

take care.
xxx