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December 3, 2008 at 11:13 am #3414JedtKeymaster
Hi all,
There is an article about miscarriage in today’s Irish Ind*pendent, in the features section. It talks about one couples experience and how difficult they found it to cope but how they eventually managed to get through it.
It can found at http://www.independent.ie/lifestyle/the … 61019.html
It also metions the Miscarriage Association of Ireland’s next support meeting which will take place tomorrow night, Thurday 4th Dec, in Buswells Hotel in Dublin @ 8.30pm
In the meantime, support can be found through their website at http://www.miscarriage.ie
December 4, 2008 at 11:38 am #67640Taylor5MemberSabbi its a wonderful article and really enjoyed reading it, well if you call sitting here bawling my eyes out enjoying something. I find Im thinking more about the mc I had last year, yet feeling so lucky to be holding my 6 week old baby boy…….. The Guiness christmas advert had me in tears as it took me back to last year sitting crying with my heart breaking, this year its such a ying and yang suitation as this year when I seen the advert I cried with happiness and nearly cuddled my Max to death.
I think your very brave but what you did for other woman is brilliant, I felt normal after reading my book.December 4, 2008 at 6:52 pm #67649MoonflowerMemberThanks Sabbi for posting that link…just read it now. And thank you so much for my article you did for me 🙂
I havent brought book yet but will go to link and order a copy asap. I went to a psychic other day and she said that she could see a loss around me but also a tremendous loss around my Dh, and when i told him what she said when i got home he agreed his heart hurts so much for what might of been. so would like him to read book as well.
Moonflower xxx
December 4, 2008 at 8:29 pm #67652Taylor5MemberI got the book in waterstone in Drogheda. I’d love my dh to read the book but he is very closed and think thats how he dealt with our loss.
December 5, 2008 at 7:57 am #67661JedtKeymasterHi Girls,
Thanks for all that, its nice to get positive responses when writing about miscarriage. It was such a hard time in my life and it took me a while to learn how to cope and I just wanted to write about that and let other poeple know it can be really hard and that it can effect a relationship too. I was surprised by it all to be honest.
I think writing into a diary is a great thing to do, it really helps you get things off your chest.
The book is spilt into a his and hers in each chapter so you could suggest to your partmers that they just read the part written for them. We’ve had so much feedback from Dads who picked it up and started off reading the mans part and then ended up reading the whole lot and they did feel better afterwards.
As for crying, I still do that some days when I think about my baby and its 4 years on for me. I don’t think it ever goes away but you learn how to cope. I log onto miscarriage.ie every so often and read the messages parents have posted there for the babies they lost and I bawl my eyes out. I think its theraputic to have a good cry every now and then.
Thanks again,
Siobhan.December 8, 2008 at 12:54 pm #67715DinomumMemberHi Sabbi I read your article in the paper last week and I have to say it was a great comfort…thanks for the link to the site too, I must have a look at it. Well done you 😀
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