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  • #9016
    orla1
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    HI everyone

    My name is orla, just joined today …site looks really good

    Hope i get some feedback on this as im sure im not the only one thats going throught this:
    I have a son whos 4 and he is great and myself and my husband decided its time for anothe one , after all we had our son so quickly (after the 1st month of trying) it wont take that long, tad wrong on that one!!. We have been trying for 6 months and nothing has happened, im usingthe fertitly kits they are good but to no avail still not pregnant. So im wondering if anyone out there has been in the same boat as me and has tried something and it worked for them ?? If i hear take it easy, dont think about or when its your time it’ll happen I’ll scream :lol: ..

    Looking forward to hearing from you all…:)

    Orla

    #98384
    super minder
    Member

    relax and stop trying. and it will happen . there a ten year gap between my boys. was tryin g too hard and my body was tired. i got drunk one night and that was that after a night out.

    i dont mean dont try but try think of other things pet xxx
    glad you joined xxx

    #98388
    chewieodie
    Participant

    Welcome to Mumstown! 😉

    My advice would be to get yourself a hold of the book….
    "Taking Charge of your Fertility"… by Toni Weschler

    Once you take note of the info in that… it makes things easier to follow your cycle etc… and saves a lot on pregnancy tests and fertility tests…. cos you learn how to read your body without all the gadgets…

    Lets put it this way, I was able to determine that I was pregnant 3 days before my period was due…. WITHOUT a pregnancy test! Even had the doctor gobsmacked! (And this from someone who took over 10 years to fall pregnant!)… 😉

    It’s an investment…. I promise you. Also, once you learn your body signs, you can determine if there is something "not right" and you need to call in the doctor… (ie hormone levels etc)

    WIshing you loads of baby dust! 😉

    #98401
    orla1
    Member

    thanks for the advice will def look up that book 😀

    #98402
    chewieodie
    Participant

    anytime hun…. hope it works for you… 😉 Worked a few times for me 😉

    #98433
    duckiedoo
    Member

    Hi orla

    I did not have to try with my first three kids, it seemed like if dh came in the bedroom at all i was preggers, so imagine my surprise when we started trying in jan this year and month after month NOTHING…..so when my af came in june i said to dh that i wasnt going to try anymore that i was content with my lot…but in july i got a positive result!!! I think because i stopped freaking out about it. Just try and read your body….that stitch in your side when you are ovulating or a jelly like mucus half way through your cycle are all good signs….it will happen for you. I think the harder you try the more stressed and disappointed you are!!! Good luck and hope it happens soon for you!! xx

    #98502
    orla1
    Member

    Thanks duckiedoo, glad im not the only that freaked out and congrats on your postivie result :):)…. I think on monday when i wrote the blog was feeling very down and just needed to get it off my chest..Feeling ok now and am taking all advice on board and will try and relax…

    Have decided to re decorate the bedrooms upstairs and that might get the whole thing off my mind..colour charts are now replacing fertility ones and the only sticks im using are the ones to mix the paint :D..

    Shall keep everyone updated

    O xx

    #98552
    duckiedoo
    Member

    lol

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