I am having alot of trouble with my family, my in laws are causing so much stress, always dropping in without calling ahead. full of opinions about how we (ok, me) are raising our kids. Im sick of it. I asked my partner to ask them nicely to give us some space but he doesn’t want to cause an argument so he says hes staying out of it. Would it be wrong to hide the next time my MIL calls?? Im at end of my tether
Can you speak with your partner? can you ask her in for a cup of tea at a time that suits you and mention that you are often busy and point out that certain times are better than others. A kind of a subtle way to get her maybe not call in as much?