June 19, 2019 at 2:06 am #144888
Our daughter has been categorised as Dyslexic and while its upsetting, its also kind of a relief because it explains the tears, tantrums and massive stress she (and we) have had to deal with over her school work and especially homework, over the past few years.
She has had brilliant support from her school but the Department of Education have really annoyed us because they are NO HELP AT ALL!!!!
After us asking repeatedly over the past few years if she could possibly be Dyslexic, her wonderful teacher this year fought for a psychologist from Dept of Education to finally assess her properly.
The psychologist from Dept of Education met with me first to discuss where our daughter has difficulties. Then she met with our daughters teacher, also at length and her school principal. Finally, she spent time with our daughter assessing her. She met her twice, over two days and did a series of tests and quizzes with her. This happened about 3 months ago.
The psychologist called her Dad and me into the school last week for the results, her teacher and the principal were there too. She confirmed that yes, our child has Dyslexia. She explained that our child will need alot of support going forward in school. She will need a special laptop (€450) and reading pen (€200). She will need exemptions from certain subjects in secondary school but with the RIGHT support she can go on to college and get the Education she deserves.
However, there is a snag….
Our daughter ‘ticked all the boxes’ needed to qualify for learning assistance from Dept of Education….expect for ONE. This one box she didn’t ‘tick’ was an IQ test. Sadly, she did not score what they ‘needed’ her to score in order to qualify for educational assistance.
According to the Dyslexic Association of Ireland, this test should not be given to Dyslexic children because they cannot compute how to answer the questions to score highly enough to qualify for the support THEY NEED. The Dyslexic Association have been lobbying the Dept of Education to change this because it is so unfair.
A child who struggles to read, write and spell will have trouble with a standard IQ test, but the Dept of Education states that only children who score 90 or higher, will get the laptop and pen. She didn’t score 90 to that’s that, she gets no support.
The psychologist admitted that our child needs this support but because she didn’t meet the criteria, she gets no help. So basically, boo hoo, we’re on our own! She says its unfair, a contradiction and unjust but there is nothing she can do.
We will obviously buy her the laptop and any software she needs but we will have to fight to get her the ‘allowance’ required to use this for her junior cert, leaving cert etc.
This is a whole new area of learning to us and I was wondering, does anyone have any advice?
It would be much appreciated. we are all new to this…..
thanks gals. xxJune 19, 2019 at 5:55 pm #144908
Im sorry to hear this but as you said.. now you know for sure there is a reason behind your daughter’s problems you can begin to help properly …
I have sadly no experience with any of this but i can imagine being this country then its gonna be a long hard slog getting anywhere and youll be facing dead ends as you have already.
Doung a quick search on mams.ie on dyslexia there are a few old threads i dont know if there any use that might be a good start.
Also people like Heather who has dealt with the hse a lot etc might be of help.
Also get yourself on the tv to talk about it im sure that will get everything sorted asap !
Good luck let me know how you get on xxxJune 19, 2019 at 6:48 pm #144909
Gillian Burke FaulknerParticipant
Sorry to hear that your having difficulty with the Department of Education. They make it so difficult for schools and parents alike.
Have you enquired about retaking this test? As you know a child’s mood or sleep can have an effect on their ability in tests. Especially if they scored near the marker.
It seems to be very harsh and contradictory.
I would definitely appeal the decision.June 22, 2019 at 12:41 pm #144922
It just seems so stupid to me. they gave us a ‘report’ stating our daughter really very badly needs support and learning aids but they say she did not score highly enough to get any help from them.
its just so frustrating and annoying. I am literally raging about it.
She is a great sleeper, always was ever since she was a baby. She is the sweetest, most helpful child. I actually have to ask her not to help so much around the house at times. She is very clever and observant so we know she is smart – she has always been very sharp about noticing things and remembering things. Just not with spelling and writing unfortunately.
It seems things are stacked against her. She is a wonderful child with so many capabilities but in the areas she needs help – she is being denied it.
I don’t get it. It makes no sense.
I called the Dyslexia association of Ireland and they were lovely and they said they have been trying so hard to get these tests changed because they are so unfair but so far, no joy.
Why is it the children who need help to meet their full potential don’t get it.
On top of teaching her to type and for us to learn about how we can help her, we will also need to fight with the Dept of Education and it is so risiculous. Our time and energy needs to be spent on helping our daughter, not fighting with them about it.
God, I am so angry I could screamJune 22, 2019 at 2:10 pm #144924
Your kids obvs needs help, its horrible that their not helping her.
complain to your local TD maybe.
its very sad for you, I am so sorry for herJune 22, 2019 at 10:06 pm #144930
I can’t imagine how upset you must be! Im sorry IV no advice but keep fighting and trying, hope you get the help you and your daughter deserve!
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