my little boy got mostly 20 from friends and neighbours and 50 from family members. he got 100 off my mam and dad, far too much in my opinion. the priest announced the week before at mass that no envelopes were to be exchanged at the church, which was requested by the parents commitee. he has 2 best friends in his class and we agreed to put 10 in card for them. they get far too much money, wouldnt mind making mine again!!!!